fix: gateway token double-counting — use absolute set instead of increment (#3317)

The gateway's update_session() used += for token counts, but the cached
agent's session_prompt_tokens / session_completion_tokens are cumulative
totals that grow across messages. Each update_session call re-added the
running total, inflating usage stats with every message (1.7x after 3
messages, worse over longer conversations).

Fix: change += to = for in-memory entry fields, add set_token_counts()
to SessionDB that uses direct assignment instead of SQL increment, and
switch the gateway to call it.

CLI mode continues using update_token_counts() (increment) since it
tracks per-API-call deltas — that path is unchanged.

Based on analysis from PR #3222 by @zaycruz (closed).

Co-authored-by: zaycruz <zay@users.noreply.github.com>

hermes_state.py

@@ -415,6 +415,72 @@ class SessionDB:
             )
             self._conn.commit()
 
+    def set_token_counts(
+        self,
+        session_id: str,
+        input_tokens: int = 0,
+        output_tokens: int = 0,
+        model: str = None,
+        cache_read_tokens: int = 0,
+        cache_write_tokens: int = 0,
+        reasoning_tokens: int = 0,
+        estimated_cost_usd: Optional[float] = None,
+        actual_cost_usd: Optional[float] = None,
+        cost_status: Optional[str] = None,
+        cost_source: Optional[str] = None,
+        pricing_version: Optional[str] = None,
+        billing_provider: Optional[str] = None,
+        billing_base_url: Optional[str] = None,
+        billing_mode: Optional[str] = None,
+    ) -> None:
+        """Set token counters to absolute values (not increment).
+
+        Use this when the caller provides cumulative totals from a completed
+        conversation run (e.g. the gateway, where the cached agent's
+        session_prompt_tokens already reflects the running total).
+        """
+        with self._lock:
+            self._conn.execute(
+                """UPDATE sessions SET
+                   input_tokens = ?,
+                   output_tokens = ?,
+                   cache_read_tokens = ?,
+                   cache_write_tokens = ?,
+                   reasoning_tokens = ?,
+                   estimated_cost_usd = ?,
+                   actual_cost_usd = CASE
+                       WHEN ? IS NULL THEN actual_cost_usd
+                       ELSE ?
+                   END,
+                   cost_status = COALESCE(?, cost_status),
+                   cost_source = COALESCE(?, cost_source),
+                   pricing_version = COALESCE(?, pricing_version),
+                   billing_provider = COALESCE(billing_provider, ?),
+                   billing_base_url = COALESCE(billing_base_url, ?),
+                   billing_mode = COALESCE(billing_mode, ?),
+                   model = COALESCE(model, ?)
+                   WHERE id = ?""",
+                (
+                    input_tokens,
+                    output_tokens,
+                    cache_read_tokens,
+                    cache_write_tokens,
+                    reasoning_tokens,
+                    estimated_cost_usd,
+                    actual_cost_usd,
+                    actual_cost_usd,
+                    cost_status,
+                    cost_source,
+                    pricing_version,
+                    billing_provider,
+                    billing_base_url,
+                    billing_mode,
+                    model,
+                    session_id,
+                ),
+            )
+            self._conn.commit()
+
     def get_session(self, session_id: str) -> Optional[Dict[str, Any]]:
         """Get a session by ID."""
         with self._lock: